Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Life Lesson

Today, I learnt something that not telling is the same as lying.

Dictionary.com define 'lying' as:
  1. to speak falsely or utter untruth knowingly, as with intent to deceive
  2. to express what is false; convey a false impression
I always thought that lying is to say something falsely. Now I know that if we convey a false impression, it is the same as lying.

She learnt her lesson today. Would you forgive her ignorance?

She's truly so very sorry...

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Love And Un-love?

Can we love someone, and later on, un-love them?

Can we possibly?

I believe strongly that love is everlasting... even if you've been in a relationship and you found that it's not meant to be. I mean, there must be something special about that person that drew your heart to them once (upon a time).

If you are not with them now... and if you search deep in your heart, you'll find the pieces of love and forgotten memories hidden under all the loads in your heart.

I cherish beautiful times, keep good memories, treasure love and joy... and I still love you, even if I've said things like:

I hate you!
I don't wanna be in this house!
I wish you were not my aunt!

Because I personally cannot erase past memories. No matter what, you always have a place in my heart.

Recently chat up with an old friend from the past. It breaks my heart to know what happened over the course of 12 years, and it also got me thinking...

How could you wanted them so badly, loved them so dearly, 'owned' them so possessively... and now, couldn't be bothered if they existed?

How could you be so loveless... and selfish?

It breaks my heart to see broken hearts. If only I have a magic wand, waving "abracadabra!" and could make things better.

Well, I'm just a girl who has too much love to give... so if you're passing through this blog, lost and hurt...

I love you!

Sunday, September 20, 2009

I'm Burned

I'm not getting used to the slight tan I got from walking under the sun in Taiwan for a few hours. Apparently, the sun in taiwan scorches deep to the skin. and trust me, each of us who were there got TWO shades darker!

Normally I'd put on a comfortable pair of shorts when travelling, but thank God I begged to differ on that day! So, my legs were safe from Mr Sunshine but, I only brought along one pair of shoes, so... look at the shades on my feet!


Anyway, when we came back to Penang about 5 days ago, the weather had been very kind (at least, to me!) - blue skies with smell of warm blossoms and soothing slow swish of trees. I close my eyes, take a deep breath of the air I missed so much, thinking myself almost in paradise. With days like this, you can almost think yourself anywhere.

I love days like this...

And every other days after last Wednesday was moody rains. Normally, I would be anticipating for Mr Sunshine... but now, I'm enjoying the cool fresh wind that slaps around me. At least, it's a break from the sun and let my tan be gone... FAST!

To all who were kissed by the Taiwanese Sunshine!

Happy skin lightening...

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Do You Really Want It?

You gotta REALLY want it, to get it!

Do you really want...
... success?
... love?
... peace?
... happiness?
... health?
... wealth?

If you really want success, you'll be successful.
If you really want love, you'll be lovable and you'll be loved.
If you really want peace, you'll be peaceful.
If you really want happiness, you'll be happy.
If you really want health, you'll be healthy.
If you really want wealth, you'll be wealthy.

The key is do you really want it?

The problem with many people is... they don't really want it. They think it'll be great to have it... but it's okaaaaaay not to have it. When we really want something so badly, we will work towards it, find solutions and ways to get it.

Did you know? The amount of energy used to lit a light bulb, equals to the same amount of energy used by laser to cut steel? So, the amount of energy is the same... what is the difference? The difference is... the laser is focused.


Another example is the sun. The sun brings warmth when it shines during the day, and the sun can start a fire when it's positioned correctly with a magnifying glass! (we experimented that during science class in high school) The sun is still the sun... so, what is the difference? The difference is... the sun is focused.

You gotta be focused on your own desire, be focused on what you want. You can only achieve whatever you want, if you really want that whatever! So, the next time you say you want something, think again and ask yourself... do you really want it?

If you really want it, you must say it out loud. Tell someone, tell your family, share with your friends, etc.
And if you say it, you must mean it. Otherwise, you are lying to the people whom you share it with.
And if you mean it, you must do it, like you mean it, like you say it, like you really want it!
By adding action into what you really want, then you are on the way to achieving it.

Happy achieving what you REALLY want!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Just As The Brand Says It...

When you cannot do something,

It is because... You DIDN'T do it!

If you fall the first time, stand up! If you fall again, stand up! If you fall yet again, stand up!

If you fall again and again and again, stand up again and again and again!

Just like Thomas Edison said, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. If I find 10,000 ways something won't work, I haven't failed. I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward."

That's is why... many of life's failures are people who did not realise how close they were to success when they gave up.

So, let's just do it!

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